‘Instead of talking about ‘good vs bad parenting’, I think of it as ‘effective vs ineffective parenting’ Remember if you’re doing something that’s ineffective with your child right now, there’s always hope, because you can change’ - James Lehman

If you are at your wits end and struggling to cope with the behaviour of one or more of your children we may be able to help.

Firstly to assure you that you are not the first parent to feel like this. It can feel as if you are in the minority, ‘failed’ parent. Not a bit of it, with a little expert support you can soon join a swelling number who come through to enjoy their family and their life again.

Behaviour always meets a need and finding alternative ways to meet that need positively is the challenge.
Once we get to grips with this influence our proven strategies will transform behaviour.

This may be happening because:

  • Family relationships have become disconnected and uncomfortable;
  • They don’t feel like the parent they want to be;
  • There is a negative impact on their work;
  • The whole family is having to revolve around the behaviour;
  • Their child’s friendships, education and quality of life are being affected.

Resulting in them feeling

  • As if they are letting their children down
  • Unable to help their child
  • That they will be judged as a ‘bad’ parent
  • Guilty that they don’t spend enough time with their child
  • Frustrated they don’t know how to manage or
    change their child’s behaviour
  • Resentful of the disruption to their lives

The behaviourists can and will help them to:

  • Identify and respect mutual family values
  • Understand and manage family dynamics and individual interactions
  • Create a safe, secure position from which to change behaviour
  • Understand their own patterns of behaviour and its effects
  • Develop and use tools and strategies for changing behaviour

So they are able to:

  • Reconnect with their children and enjoy being with them
  • Have a mutually respectful family environment
  • Feel confident as a parent
  • Have a more settled life
  • Know their child will be happier and  start to enjoy life again

And finally feel they are:

  • Empowered
  • supported
  • not judged
  • calmer

and the parent they always
wanted to be.

It’s not always easy but it will be worth it.
As parents we just all need to feel good enough – get in touch now